Q:
Why not apply a common counseling
mode ( one counseling session,
one payment )
A: The counseling mode I
am using now is “once paid,
there is no time limitation
until complete recovery”,
means you will can call
me or visit me at any appointed
time. For the first one
or two session, I will listen
to your story and customize
a therapy system for you
to practice. Then you can
give me feedback or tell
me any problem or difficulty
you have encountered during
the practice any time, and
I will instruct you with
guidance and correct your
mistakes. Then you continue
to practice and tell me
feedback or problem, I will
once again correct your
mistake and give you guidance.
By continual practice---feedback---instruction
cycle, finally you will
get completely recovered
and don’t need any counseling,
you can depend on yourself
to live freely. But what
I mentioned above is a general
and simple description of
the process, I would usually
modify the therapy system
according the actual situation
of my client to help him
or her to overstride any
barrier on the way to recovery.
I used to try many counseling
mode including the one you
mentioned above. However,
to be frank, inveterate
mental disorders are not
formed accidentally, they
all should date back to
the childhood of every sufferer,
the negative environment
we were living with in our
childhood renders us such
negative personality, render
us “timid, dependent, sensitive,
weak……”, which are the main
factors leading to our various
mental disorders . We dare
say “ how many years you
lived, how many years you
suffered.” Various mental
disorders or Neurosis is
only an outburst or extreme
expression of your accumulated
suffering. Therefore, if
you want to recover completely,
you personality should be
reformed, you ways of thinking
should be corrected, one
or two counseling session
is far from enough for this
purpose, there are Chinese
old saying:” Personality
Reformation is even difficult
than Mountain-budging”.
Therefore, if we really
want to help one sufferer
to completely recover, a
long and systematical reformation
rather a short and temporary
counseling is a must. The
therapist should devote
all of his attention and
efforts to one or two persons
in a certain period of time
to guarantee the effect,
it is a very exhausting
and arduous job. The feature
of our therapy is “Whole
process”, “from beginning
to end”, it is like a sailor
and a boat, we are the sailor,
we will be responsible for
taking you to the harbor
and anchor you, then you
will never drift about even
come back to what you was.
If we sailors abandon the
boat half way, surely it
will be driven by wind or
tides to its starting point
and even to nowhere. We
have tried the most common
counseling mode ( one counseling
session, one payment), the
effect is not satisfactory
at all, mainly because that
our clients cannot persevere
because they have a conscious
or unconscious worry about
payment every time or they
don’t realize that all the
mental disorder are like
a kind of bad habit, which
would haunt us again when
we think they are completely
gone (recurring). Only when
we pluck the root, they
will die. He might think:
“ well, I have made some
progress, do I have to pay
for another counseling?
Maybe I can depend on myself
now”, “I have already tried
one or two times, but it
doesn’t seem good, maybe
Heixi is lying”, so, such
clients are just like the
boat abandoned by the sailor
half way, the difference
is that they give up themselves
not I abandon them . What’s
worse, they might tell others
“ I have already visited
Heixi, but he cannot cure
my mental disorders.” All
in all, such mode doesn’t
do good to both the clients
who believe in me and me
myself. May it can bring
me money more easily in
the short run, but in the
long run, I will never realize
my dream of saving all the
souls in purgatory in this
world. So I decided either
I don’t do at all or I do
it best, namely either I
don’t receive any client
or I must make every clients
of mine completely recovered!
So I apply this new counseling
mode, maybe it will arouse
doubts even criticism at
first, but I believe curative
effect is the most strong
evidence.
Q: The payment is so high!
A: Some friends think
the cost is too high to
be accepted. I think whether
the cost is acceptable
depends on what kind of
service you have got.
If such cost is for a
series of pure counseling
session which may make
you feel temporarily comfortable
and you will come back
to the therapist again,
or the therapist has not
got the confidence to
guarantee your complete
recovery, then the cost
of $8500 is so high and
irrational. However, if
you exchange $8500 for
a complete recovery---To
me, complete recovery
doesn’t only mean a change
of state, it means a lot
of things, means you can
escape from your past
and start your new life,
you can pursue the job
you like freely, you can
communicate with persons
and make public speaking
freely, you will free
yourself from depression
and feel that the breeze
is really fresh and the
sun is really shining,
those recurring and unwanted
thoughts will never haunt
you and you can focus
on what you need to do,
you can pursue your career
you used to dreamed of
and earn back a couple
of $8500, you can enjoy
the life freely! suffice
it to say “ the feeling
of freedom is good! When
you change, your world
will also change. Exchange
$8500 for a complete new
life and new you, do you
think it is rational?
If you consider this payment
a investment , what you
will gain is a completely
new life. One more question:
What do we live for? To
enjoy the life! If you
are unable to taste the
interest of living, even
if you are as rich as
Bill Gates, your wealth
doesn’t mean anything
to you. A client once
told me just because he
was haunted by depression
and SA, he quit the job
which was very decent;
another client also complained
that his girl friend left
him and so many friends
disliked him because of
his weird OCD and Phobias
symptoms, more friends
told me they cannot live
a free life because of
all kinds of Phobias.
What we have already lost
cannot measure by amount
of money, we cannot lose
more! Furthermore, when
you recover, you can easily
earn back a couple of
$8500, why you would rather
bury your true capability
and gift in your heart
for your whole life than
unleash them through some
guidance.
Besides this factor, I
don’t work as a single
person, behind me is the
Chinese largest psychological
counseling center located
in Shanghai, China. The
cost is so high to run
and develop such a large
organization. In such
a modern and market-oriented
society, such a large
organization would not
exist if it cannot afford
such high cost, without
paying, no one will work
for us, no one will rent
the site which is big
enough to us, no media
will make communication
for us, all in all, no
one will provide everything
we need to exist. Without
existing in this society,
how can we develop, how
can we dream of saving
all tortured souls in
this world. Let’s set
aside those big words,
only the efforts and painstaking
care one professional
therapist concentrates
on one or two clients
during whole process (
usually from 3 months
to 1 year, but it depends,
because we should guarantee
you get complete recovery
) in order to help the
person to completely recover
is far more valuable than
the money itself. Remember,
we promise you will never
need any dugs and therapist
when you get complete
recovered here. Only because
all the mental disorders
cannot be cured by one
or tow session, like I
mentioned above, we apply
this new mode to help
every one who comes to
us to completely solve
the problem once and for
all.
By saying so much, we
don’t mean that all the
sufferers all over the
world should come to us,
because currently we can
only help a limited number
of persons. But according
to my own experience in
suffering those mental
disorders and finally
completely freeing my
myself from it, inveterate
disorders cannot be cured
by one or two counseling
session or any drugs,
you should strongly determine
to seek a professional
and experienced therapist
as quickly as possible.
The earlier you recover,
the better! We have no
time to waste.
You can depend on yourself,
spending more than 10
years, trying various
methods whether it is
necessary or not, and
work out a therapy system
which can enable you to
complete recover.
You can also find a man
who has already done this,
and learn from him this
therapy system and get
complete recovered in
almost half a year.
Your destiny is in your
hands!
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